My name is Christine. I’m 29 and I live on Long Island New York. I like to go out with my family and friends, go to the beach, run, work out, cook, bake, and I LOVE decorate!!
Before I had my narcissistic experience in 2011, I was unhappy with my weight, unhappy in life and had a low self-esteem. I first met my ex-narc at a Crossfit gym I decided to try to see if I could get into shape. The first day I went there I saw the most good looking man I’d ever seen. Prince Charming showed interest in me (of all people, ME!) he eventually got my phone number, and called me every single day and we spoke for hours. Everything I liked, he liked. We had so much in common. How could such a handsome perfectly polite man be so into me?! Once I found out he was married, I was crushed. “Of course he’s married!” – I thought to myself. So the fairy tale ended there, and so I thought. Only after knowing him about 5 months as friends I told him that we probably shouldn’t continue to talk like we do since he was married and I was in a relationship myself. Little did I know the narcissistic supply I gave him far exceeded that from his wife and guess what? Just like that! He filed for divorce. A week later they gave the dog away and within 6 months time house was sold, divorce was finalized, and he was all mine. Within those 6 months I started to see who he truly was, and I then spent 3 years of my life with the agony, the mind games, the hurt, anxiety, powerlessness, and deep down emptiness one experiences when dealing with a narcissist. How could this happen? How could someone so perfect, who left everything just to be with me be so cruel? How do I get my prince charming back and WHERE IS MY DAMN HAPPILY EVER AFTER?
When I realized what I was dealing with I starting researching narcissistic abuse and every word I read I thought to myself, this is my life. After ultimately reaching the decision to end the relationship, it took me 2 more years to get rid of him. Finally, I’ve been narc free for almost 2 years, in a relationship with a man who I adore and adores me in return, and I couldn’t be happier. I feel good about myself I work out, eat right, and I would never let anyone treat me the way my ex-narc did ever again.
I’d love to share my mental, spiritual, and physical transformation with you and inspire you in any way I can to become the best you you can be. My journey includes incredible self-healings that I will be sharing with you which helped me tremendously throughout my narcissistic abuse experience and even further to the happy loving person I today.
I have successfully escaped a Narcissistic Relationship after 5 years. The point of my blog is to help and support anyone who has experienced or is experiencing Narcissistic Abuse. Ultimately, I want to put an end to Narcissistic Abuse by raising awareness and providing support and empowerment to anyone seeking help to the best of my ability.