Mel quoted me here at the end! This video has so much great information for anyone dealing with narcissists.
Do you ever feel like your relationship is spinning out of control and the only person that sees it is you? Or you feel completely trapped by your significant other but can’t really put your finger on why? You might be dealing with a narcissist. Here are 10 warning signs that you may have slipped into a relationship with one of the most toxic people ever to exist: The Narcissist. (But we were so perfect when we first met!)
1.No matter what the fight is about, it’s always your fault, even when you’re the person angry or mad because THEY did something wrong. (Common excuses include: “I never said that”, “You’re crazy”, “No thats because YOU..”, “That never happened”, etc.)
2. You seem to be the only person that sees the Narcissist for who they really are. Everyone else thinks the world of him/her!
3.When you first met, it was love at first sight. You never thought you would be this lucky, and finally found “THE ONE”!
4.If you ever tried to leave the Narcissist, they come crawling back, claiming they will change and finally do all the things you wanted them to do because they love YOU so much!
5.Almost everything the Narcissist says is contradicted by his/her actions, leaving you confused about what’s happening.
6.You become isolated from your friends, family, colleagues, and community. (No one wants to hear you complain over and over about your relationship.)
8.The anxiety you feel from the Narcissist consumes you and at times he/she becomes your priority no matter what you are doing.
9.When you feel sad you can’t believe how incredibly cold he/she is to you. (Laughs when you cry, disregards that your upset entirely, etc.)
10.The final sign your dating a narcissist is when you lose yourself completely. You don’t know how or why, but the person you used to be just isn’t you anymore. You have become a stranger even to yourself. This is when you know you need to make a change!
If you can related to more than 5 of these warning signs, your dating a narcissist! Ahh! Don’t worry, I have the tools to help you out and you can find them here !
Melanie Tonia Evans Wrote:
“A Thriver’s Journey is one where we stopped looking for love in all the wrong places.
We stop looking for others to grant us love, acceptance and approval … or the fun, experiences and happiness that we weren’t generating directly within ourselves and with life.
This was one of the greatest “gaps” that narcissists rush into ..
“Look at me, look at me .. I’m the ANSWER!!!”
Then of course we were going to cling, we were going to not let go. We will prescribe, fix, maladapt ourselves, and do anything at all to keep this “source”.
When all along this was about coming home to be alone with ourselves, to self-partner, to heal our gaps and become from the inside out a true Source of love and life to ourselves and others.
To become the ONLY true relationship that would ever create true relationships with everything and everyone we choose in our experience.
The only relationship that could or would deeply fulfil us.
The essential relationship with ourselves.
That is exactly the workshopping currently taking place with hundreds of people from all over the world right now in my next “3 Keys To Thriving After Narcissistic Abuse” Free Webinar Group.
If you have had enough of the pain of narcissistic abuse, and truly wish to heal, please join us”:3 Keys to Thriving After Narcissistic Abuse Free Webinar